Question from Amanda : How to make love, forgiveness and trust in parents and children’s relationships
I’m 15, have a good relationship with my parents. But I see many cases of bad relationships and damaging that I am angry and afraid. Apparently, most parents are relentless love and trust and to your children when all is well. But if they mess up, all is lost, love, trust, good relationships. Is it possible for a child to be forgiven if he or she messes up? I’ve never done anything wrong and does not intend, but I am a human being can, of course, make mistakes. If I make one, that’s all we have built in terms of love and trust is lost? I think if my parents make a mistake I will forgive? So why should it be shaped? Do not forgive their children is cruel and selfish of her parents, who can accept and love their children when they make mistakes. I read some posts here saying that children have to regain your confidence to parents when they were wrong, does not mean that all is lost? Why not forgive and forget the parents when their children are really sorry? E-trust is broken, you can retrieve it? Or if a teenager comes to this trust is lost forever? I’m sure most parents, once broken trust parents Teir too, so why so harsh with your children Best answer:
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Maalru
All is not lost, parents quite forgive his children is not difficult to verify. Parents always have a tendency to blame themselves, “what I did wrong” or “maybe I should have done this” Believe me it hurts more than the boy’s father, because it ‘ is a paradox of the shadow, we must teach a lesson and tell them I want to forgive you, is something like a message that what you did well. We want to learn. If your father broke your trust, you can take a minute to give his confidence back and just because when trust is broken, hurt you. The parents are the same. It hurts, that children also hurt our feelings, maybe they just do not see it. We trust you, we love you. when it comes to be sorry, you really need serious, and should open and communicate with his father. The job of a parent to protect you and that is absolutely why we play hard with you! Love and Protection!